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We cannot agree on the official rules for watching football at our place.

Relationships

My bf (32M) and I (30F) host for our friends every Sunday. He just dropped a list of 'house rules' on everyone that are completely insane, and now half the group is threatening to watch somewhere else.

Dating apps would be so much better if they had an 'away' status like AIM.

Dating

i just want other people to know that i am not actively looking at my phone or ignoring them. i'm just ~*aWaY fRoM mY cOmPuTeR*~

My team lead invited me to her wedding via a spreadsheet.

Work

The invite wasn't a formal invitation, but a link to a a place nearby Sheet where guests are supposed to claim what gift they're bringing from a pre-filled list. It feels impersonal and transactional.

My roommate's boyfriend basically lives here and I'm tired of paying for his hot water.

Friends

He's here at least six nights a week, takes 30-minute showers, eats our food, and doesn't pay a dime for rent or utilities. I finally told my roommate he either needs to start contributing or stop staying over so much.

We're letting corporate nostalgia ruin what used to be special.

Nostalgia

Every brand is bringing back some 'classic' version of their product from the 90s/2000s. At first it was cool, but now every single thing is a limited-time throwback and it just feels cheap.

At what point does being a 'good host' mean I have to pay for my brother's dates?

Family

My younger brother lives with me while he finishes school. Last night, he and his girlfriend raided my fridge and pantry for dinner after their plans fell through, and now he thinks I should just be cool with it.

'Doomscrolling' is a choice, not an addiction you can't control.

Hot Takes

The algorithms might be strong, but your willpower is stronger.

My girlfriend thinks I should pay for her sister's leftovers.

Money

We went out for a family dinner for my girlfriend's mom's birthday. Her younger sister ordered way too much food and now my girlfriend says I should cover it since I make more money.

The most embarrassing thing just happened at my own birthday dinner.

Social

We were at this nice restaurant my sister picked, and when the bill came, she announced she was only paying for her meal. Everyone else had to figure out how to cover my plate.

My gf says playing old video games is a waste of time.

Gaming

She thinks if I'm going to spend hours gaming it should be on new stuff with friends like Fortnite or CoD. I tried to explain the glory of Ocarina of Time on the N64 and she just isn't getting it.

It's completely fair to root for an athlete, not a team.

Sports

Especially when your favorite player gets traded to a rival.

TV shows should go back to releasing one episode per week.

Culture

Is it rude to ask for a bite of someone's food?

Food

Even if they're a close friend or partner.

My DnD group is threatening to kick me out over a font.

Internet

I'm the designated 'lore keeper' for our Dungeons & Dragons campaign, and I've been taking detailed notes for over a year. I use Comic Sans for all my documents because it's easy for me to read, but now the group is staging a coup.

I had to call 911 on my roommate's boyfriend and now she wants to kick me out.

Who's in the Wrong

He was getting really aggressive and yelling at her and i got scared. Now my roommate is saying I overreacted and made things worse, and that I need to find a new place to live.

I refused to help my neighbor jump his car this morning.

Am I the Villain

He's a nice enough guy, but he's asked me three times in the last month. I have my own things to do in the morning, and I'm starting to feel like his personal AAA service.

The most embarrassing thing just happened at my own birthday dinner.

Was I Wrong

My girlfriend's sister decided to use my birthday dinner as the moment to announce her pregnancy. I barely know her and now my entire family thinks I'm going to be an uncle.

We cannot agree on the official 'leftover' etiquette in our apartment.

Petty or Nah

My roommate and I are trying to set house rules. I believe that any food in the main fridge (not in a personal marked bag) is fair game after 24 hours. He thinks all leftovers are off-limits unless explicitly offered.

People don't appreciate a good 'no-skip' album anymore.

Music

Back in the day, you bought a CD and listened to the whole thing, in order. That's how you found the deep cuts and the hidden gems. Now everyone just throws singles into a playlist and calls it a day.

My girlfriend thinks I’m a bad person for how I use our Netflix profile.

Red Flag

they says my habit of deleting things from the 'Continue Watching' is a red flag. I think it's just basic streaming etiquette.

I had to drop a class because my ex is in it and won't stop staring at me.

School

We broke up two months ago and it was messy. I thought enough time had passed, but every time I look up in this seminar he's just looking at me and it makes my skin crawl. It's a required class for my major.

My roommate's boyfriend basically lives here rent-free and eats all our food.

Drama

My (23F) roommate's (24F) boyfriend (25M) is at our apartment 24/7. He doesn't pay for anything, eats food that I buy, and uses our utilities, and I'm getting really tired of it.

I ruined my own birthday party to get my boyfriend to leave.

Relationships

My bf (22m) and I (21f) got into a fight right before we were supposed to go to my birthday pregame at my apartment. He came anyway and was acting super weird and mopey in front of all my friends, so I did the only thing I could think of to make him go home.

I think I'm falling for an AI chatbot I matched with on a dating app.

Dating

ok so this is weird. i matched with this guy and the conversation was almost too good. like, witty, fast, remembered things i said. now i think it's a bot.

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