Ordering plates 'for the table' is the worst trend in modern dining.

By @piahm · Hot Takes

It's a social trap designed to make you subsidize your friends' expensive taste. We are not splitting a $300 bill evenly when I had a side salad and you ordered the entire seafood section of the menu.

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I'm putting this out there because it just happened again. Someone in the group inevitably says "let's just get a bunch of stuff and all share!" which is code for "I'm about to order the steak and the lobster but only pay for a fifth of it." I just want my own entree. I know what I like. I don't want to have to fight three other forks for a single bite of a scallop I'm now paying $15 for. It's a scam. Either order your own food or Venmo request me for the single appetizer I actually ate. I'm done with this.

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